My Rituals (and How You Can Start Too)

Written By Michelle M

Hey, beautiful souls! 🌙 Whether you’re already vibing with the moon’s energy or just starting to feel drawn to it, I’m glad you’re here. Honestly, my connection with the moon is something I’ve always felt deep within. It wasn’t something I had to learn or discover—it just was. I’ve always been connected to water and the moon itself. As a Cancer Sun (which is ruled by the moon), I feel that connection even more deeply. But it’s more than just astrology; it’s always been like an automatic knowing. Working with the moon just felt right.

I don’t stick to one moon phase or another either. I connect with all of them because each phase brings its own energy, whether it’s release, affirmation, or manifestation. What I need at that time depends on where I’m at in life. Sometimes, I love the chaotic energy of the full moon, but I appreciate every aspect of every phase. If you’re curious about diving deeper into all eight phases, I’ve got a Lunar Love Course on my website that goes into each one in depth.

Now, let’s do a quick vibe check on the moon phases, and I’ll share a bit about how I use them.

Quick Vibe Check on the Moon Phases

1. New Moon – The Blank Canvas
This is where you set your intentions. It’s like starting fresh with no past baggage—just pure potential. This is where I decide what I want to manifest.

2. Waxing Crescent – The Energy Builder
It’s time to take the first steps. I use this phase to put some action behind my intentions—whether that’s planning, researching, or just getting the wheels turning.

3. First Quarter – The Push Through
Challenges might pop up here, but this is where you power through. I focus on pushing past resistance and staying on track with what I’ve set out to do.

4. Waxing Gibbous – The Refiner
It’s all about adjustments here. I check in with my progress and make tweaks where needed. This is my “fine-tuning” phase.

5. Full Moon – The Big Release
Here’s where the magic really kicks in for me. The full moon is chaotic, and I love it. It’s a time for reflection and letting go of anything that’s holding me back. Whether it’s limiting beliefs or toxic patterns, I release it all.

6. Waning Gibbous – The Gratitude Phase
After all the intensity of the full moon, I like to take a step back and reflect on what I’m grateful for. It’s important to recognize the growth that’s happened so far.

7. Last Quarter – The Release Continues
More releasing, but with a focus on clearing the way for what’s to come. I start letting go of what no longer serves me, making room for new energy in the next cycle.

8. Waning Crescent – The Rest
This is where I rest, recharge, and get ready for the next cycle. It’s all about preparation and reflection as I get ready for the next new moon.

How I Use the Moon to Manifest (and How You Can Too)

Now that we’ve covered the phases, let’s talk about how I actually use the moon’s energy. I’ve manifested my entire life through these practices. I’ve changed the way I think daily—not just by using the moon, but also through self-love, mirror work, and other tools. It’s shifted my relationships and the way I respect myself. I’ve seen more relationships drift away than come into my life because now, I have stronger boundaries and more self-respect.

Each moon phase offers me a different ritual or practice. Sometimes, it’s about setting intentions with the new moon or doing a full-on release with the full moon. Every phase is different, and my rituals depend on what I need at that moment. I’m going to drop some of my favorite tools for each phase below—these are the things that really work for me and might help you as you start your own moon practice.

Items I Use for Each Moon Phase (Amazon Edition)

What to Do When Things Aren’t Manifesting as You Hoped

Here’s the real talk—sometimes things feel stagnant, like nothing’s happening, and that’s totally okay. I ground myself during these phases by checking in with my mindset and actions. If my fears are getting in the way, I focus on my mindset. If anxiety is stopping me from taking action, I shift my energy to doing the work. I also check in with the moon and which zodiac sign it’s in because that can give clues about what the themes of that phase are.

Remember, manifesting is a process. If you feel like things aren’t moving fast enough, it’s usually a sign to either change your approach or be patient. I always remind myself that just like with anything in life—whether it’s new friendships, jobs, or habits—you’ve got to give it time and trust the process. And the moon helps guide that process beautifully.

For Those New to Moon Manifesting: Where to Start?

If you’re new to this and feeling a bit overwhelmed, don’t worry. The moon is something you’ll get used to—just like getting used to a new friend or a new routine. I’m an eclectic witch, so I don’t follow a strict path or set of rules. I believe in making things your own, and that’s how I’ve crafted my practice.

If you’re just starting, pick one moon phase—maybe the new moon because it’s all about beginnings—and set an intention. Work with that energy for a month, and see how it feels. You’ll find your own flow. And remember, it doesn’t have to be perfect.

Ready to dive deeper?
If you want to get into the details of each phase and how to really harness this energy, I go way more in-depth in my Lunar Love Course, where we explore all eight phases and what they can do for your life. You can check that out on my website and join me for some real lunar magic.

At the end of the day, working with the moon is about you. It’s about connecting to what feels right and using that energy to guide your life. Whether you’re manifesting something big or just trying to let go of old energy, the moon is there to help you every step of the way. So, start small, trust the process, and let the moon work its magic. 🌙

Michelle M
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